A round natural Mozambique garnet, deep wine-red, on a fine gold chain.
Birthday Jewelry Gifts for Your Wife, by Birth Month
A birthstone necklace is the classic birthday jewelry gift for a wife, because it is personal without needing a size. Find her month below for one pick in her stone, from garnet in January to tanzanite in December. If she does not wear color, diamond studs or a gold chain are the safe choice.
A birthstone gift for every month
One necklace in each month's stone, each labeled natural or lab-grown. Prefer one design for the whole family? The birthstone jewelry collection has every stone in matching styles, and our birthstones by month chart explains each one.
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January: garnet
See all garnet jewelry.
Natural garnetJanuary Garnet Round Solitaire Birthstone Necklace$759 -
February: amethyst
See all amethyst jewelry.
Natural amethystSquare Solitaire Amethyst NecklaceFrom $929A square natural amethyst solitaire in clear violet. Also in platinum.
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March: aquamarine
See all aquamarine jewelry.
Natural aquamarineMarch Aquamarine Round Solitaire Birthstone NecklaceFrom $899A round natural aquamarine, the soft blue of shallow water.
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April: diamond
See all diamond jewelry.
Natural diamondApril Diamond Round Solitaire Birthstone NecklaceFrom $1,149A round natural diamond solitaire: the April birthstone, and right for any birthday.
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May: emerald
See all emerald jewelry.
Lab-grown emerald, natural diamondsDiamond & Round Lab-Grown Emerald NecklaceFrom $1,019A round lab-grown emerald with diamond accents. Also in platinum.
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June: pearl
See all pearl jewelry.
Cultured Akoya pearlAkoya Pearl Pendant NecklaceFrom $709A single 6 mm cultured Akoya pearl. Alexandrite and moonstone are the other June stones.
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July: ruby
See all ruby jewelry.
Natural rubyJuly Ruby Round Solitaire Birthstone NecklaceFrom $1,889A round natural ruby solitaire, heat-treated as is standard.
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August: peridot
See all peridot jewelry.
Natural peridotAugust Peridot Round Solitaire Birthstone Necklace$759A round natural peridot in bright lime green.
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September: sapphire
See all sapphire jewelry.
Natural sapphireSeptember Sapphire Round Solitaire Birthstone NecklaceFrom $1,219A round natural blue sapphire solitaire: our namesake stone.
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October: opal
See all opal jewelry.
Natural opal, natural diamondsOctober Opal Oval Diamond-Halo Birthstone NecklaceFrom $1,109A natural white opal in a diamond halo. Pink tourmaline is the other October stone.
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November: citrine
See all citrine jewelry.
Natural citrinePetite Citrine Necklace (3mm)From $839A petite 3 mm natural citrine in warm gold-yellow. Topaz is the other November stone.
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December: tanzanite
See all tanzanite jewelry.
Natural tanzaniteRound Tanzanite NecklaceFrom $699A round natural tanzanite, violet-blue, our December birthstone pick.
Beyond the birthstone: under $500
Lab-grown diamonds1/2 ct Lab-Grown Diamond Stud EarringsFrom $439Diamond is the April stone, and every birthday's safe answer.
14K gold, no stonesGold Ball Stud EarringsFrom $345Polished gold ball studs: quiet, classic, and in every metal color.
$500 to $1,500: personal and wearable
Her birthstone, your choice14K Gold Petite Birthstone NecklaceFrom $669One petite stone on a fine 14K gold chain. Choose her month at checkout.
Personalized: initial and stoneGold Initial and Birthstone NecklaceFrom $659Her initial with a birthstone, or a child's. Personalized pieces are final sale.
Final sale if engraved
Lab-grown or natural: your choice14K Gold Diamond Solitaire NecklaceFrom $579The classic solitaire, from 1/4 ct to 2 ct.
$1,500 to $3,000
Lab-grown diamondsLightweight Line Lab-Grown Diamond BraceletFrom $2,119A slim line of lab-grown diamonds for a milestone birthday.
$3,000 and up: a milestone birthday
Natural diamondsEveryday Round Natural Diamond Tennis BraceletFrom $3,319For the big birthdays: a tennis bracelet of natural diamonds, from 1 1/2 ct total weight.
How to choose a birthday gift for your wife
Her stone, or a stone that means something
Her own birthstone is the obvious choice, but a child's birthstone or your anniversary stone can mean more. If she wears gold every day, a colored stone in yellow gold reads warm; in white gold it reads cool and bright.
Milestone birthdays
For a 30th, 40th or 50th, step up a tier: larger diamond studs, a tennis bracelet or a natural sapphire. Our luxury jewelry gifts start at $3,000.
Timing
Many pieces are made to order and ship in about 5 to 10 business days; each product page shows its own timing before checkout. Order two weeks ahead to be safe.
Shipping and returns
- Shipping: every order ships free and fully insured by UPS Ground. Orders of $500 or more ship by complimentary UPS Express, signature required; under $500, UPS Express is $50.
- Timing: in-stock pieces leave us in 2 to 3 business days and most made-to-order pieces in 5 to 10 business days; some designs take 2 to 8 weeks. Each piece shows its own timing before you buy.
- Returns: necklaces, earrings and bracelets can be returned within 30 days of delivery, unworn and in their original condition and packaging, with a prepaid, insured UPS label.
- Final sale: rings are final sale, because every ring is made or sized to the size you choose. Engraved, personalized and special-order pieces are final sale too.
Full details are on our shipping and returns page.
Birthday jewelry for wife: questions
What is a good birthday jewelry gift for my wife?
A necklace in her birthstone is the classic choice because it is personal and needs no size. Diamond studs, gold hoops and a fine bracelet are the safe alternatives if she does not wear color.
What is the December birthstone?
December has three traditional stones: tanzanite, zircon and turquoise, with blue topaz also widely used. We feature tanzanite as our December pick for its violet-blue color.
Which months have more than one birthstone?
June (pearl, alexandrite and moonstone), August (peridot, spinel and sardonyx), October (opal and tourmaline), November (topaz and citrine) and December (tanzanite, zircon and turquoise) all have more than one.
Are birthstone necklaces natural or lab-grown?
It depends on the piece; each product page states it. Most stones in this guide are natural; the May emerald pick is lab-grown, which is real emerald grown in a laboratory.
How far ahead should I order a birthday gift?
About two weeks. Many pieces are made to order and ship in about 5 to 10 business days, and each product page shows its timing before you check out.
Methodology & sources
How we chose. Our jewelers shortlisted pieces from the live catalog, then a panel of four reviewers (a merchandiser, a gemologist, a search specialist and our creative director) chose the most appropriate pieces at four budgets. Every pick was checked as active and available to order on the date below; prices on this page update live from each product. Every stone is labeled lab-grown or natural, as it is on the product page. Nobody paid to be included.
Sources: GIA, Birthstones by Month; Diamond & Sapphire, Shipping & Returns.
Cite this guide
Updated October 26, 2026. Prices shown are live and may change; each piece lists its own timing before checkout.
